I know right, crazy name but, ‘Loose Knickers Will Trip You Up – Wise Words for the Modern Woman’ does exactly what it says on the tin! I aim to share what I’ve learned about dating, romance and relationships.
Maybe you’re here, reading this because you have noticed that the romance landscape has changed, and it’s not all good!
Sex apps rule the Smartphone-zone – you can WhatsApp yourself a date in a matter of seconds and be diving into some stranger’s undergarments in a matter of minutes!
This is GREAT if loose knickers TRULY, DEEPLY makes you happy AND nobody else gets hurt in the process.
However, this environment and throw-away attitude to intimate connection is making more women (and men as well), more confused, more lonely, more resentful, more unhappy and…more unhealthy (all of that was me a few years ago!)
Do think you have to have sex on the first date to capture or keep the man’s interest?
Do you feel like you have to have a ‘potty-mouth’ and perform like a porn-star to keep his attention?
Have you ever dumbed down, dressed down, kept your voice down or repeatedly backed down to make people like you?
And have you felt like you had to give up your friends, family, interests, job, freedom, self-respect, your body…your life, to find love and romance?
And you shouldn’t.
My friend, you have every right to love and be loved in a way that is 100% aligned with your values as a human being and, as a woman!
The way I see it after years of research, experiments, trial and error… my romance ethos that I now live by, is built on 3 pillars:
Love Yourself – Love Life – Love Others
And I’ve found it has to be done in that order. This ethos drives my philosophy of:
Live Happy, Date Wisely and Love Better
Is it time to change?
If you want to have ‘loose knickers’ and lots of partners that is absolutely fine, it really, really is. As long as it completely works for you, your partner, you heart, mind, soul and your BODY.
But is this really what you want?
Have you dated one too many d***heads?
Have you been on dates or been in relationships where you’ve felt lonely, unhappy, disrespected, frustrated or even scared?
Maybe you’ve found yourself in jobs, careers, meetings, friendships (or shops) where you’ve experienced d***head behaviour.
Then now is the time to learn how to navigate the dating and romance landscape safely, with dignity and with FUN because…
Romance is a ripple effect.
You know that when you feel empowered – you feel confident and able to stand up for what you believe in, to say ‘no’ with conviction and say ‘yes’ when you mean it.
That’s when you STOP dating d***heads.
And when you stop dating D-HDs , LOTS of other wonderful, positive, magical things happen.
You’ll call out DH behaviour wherever you see it!
Yes, there’ll be hiccups along the way but, what journey (yes, a well-used but very apt cliché) doesn’t have a few bumps in the road (cliché central!).
You’ll see how you can enjoy romance, even when you’re single and you’ll rock romance when you meet decent people you actually WANT to date!
That’s why I am DEVOTED to sharing what I’ve learned to help kind-hearted, compassionate, beautiful souls like us navigate this confusing dating and romance landscape with its increasing complexities, digital dilemmas and people’s loosening knickers because (like the song says) what the world needs now is Love. LOTS of it.
We’ve got used to bad manners, bad behaviour, bad dates, bad sex and bad relationships.
LooseKnickers.com is about changing all that:
I change my world, you change your world and together WE can change OUR world.
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What about some other Wise Words: downloadable, picture-laden PDFs filled with ways to kick d***heads out and bring romance in.
Or one of the blog posts?